Quick Update & 2010 Reflections

Birds by the Sea

Wow, where has the time gone? Looks like I have neglected this blog yet again (I haven’t updated since October!).

Well, perhaps I should at least recap some of the major events that have happened since my last update.

  • We went trick-or-treating with the boys (baby’s first Halloween!)
  • We went to Hawaii for a wedding (BTW, traveling with 2 young kids is no walk in the park)
  • Christmas came and went (baby’s first Christmas)

Best buddies

Here are some highlights about the boys:

  • The kidlet (my oldest son who is 3) loves to draw these days. In fact, he is able to draw people with faces, arms, and legs. He used to just draw squiggles prior to this progress so this is pretty impressive stuff for us.
  • The kidlet can read. OK, maybe not but he can pretend to read. He memorizes the books we read him (some are pretty lenghty ones too) and recites them back to us.
  • The baby can sit (started sitting with more balance at 6 months)
  • The baby’s been eating solids (he didn’t enjoy at first but now seems to like his food)
  • The little guy got his first haircut. His hair was growing like crazy and his long sideburns made him look like a girl (he often got mistaken for a girl). So my mom chopped off the sides and trimmed a little bit of the front (was getting into his eyes). Now he looks more like a boy.
  • We can see teeth on the baby’s gums. They haven’t really sprouted out yet, but we can finally see the whites of his teeth. For the longest time we thought he was teething (at around 4 months) but we only started seeing them in the last couple of weeks (at around 7 months).

Some random updates about myself:

  • Still sleep deprived. The baby was starting to wake up every 2 hours at one point after he hit 4 months. We thought he was teething, but he wasn’t yet. Then he kept getting sick (the big one gets sick from preschool and always manages to spread the germs to the baby) and then getting better, and then getting sick again. At the moment, he is sick again with another cold (cough, stuffy nose, fussiness, etc.). He’s been sleeping better lately but not really close to sleeping through the night yet. I guess every baby is different. I am looking forward to the day that I can sleep more than 6 hours straight. Broken up sleep is better than no sleep but not comparable to continuous sleep.
  • I haven’t done too much sewing lately. I think I made a bunting flag and a small zippered pouch for gifts. Oh, I did make the baby some pants which I had to adjust because his bottom is too big. I had gotten all this Christmas fabric which I didn’t even have the chance to use this year! What a bummer. I guess I will have to save it for next year…
  • Bought a new point and shoot camera for myself (Canon SD1300 IS). Not sure if I love it. It was at a good price but for some reason it’s hard to compare with my dSLR. I will have to take some more daytime pictures before I can judge.

Nothing overly exciting but this is my life now as a mom with 2 boys on maternity leave. Sometimes life feels pretty mundane but then again I know that this is the season for me to be a mom and be there for my kids and I am trying to enjoy the little joys in life. The boys bring me joy (the giggles, the way I see the brothers bond, the milestones that they achieve each day) and they of course also bring me pain (the meltdowns from my toddler, the sleepless nights from the baby’s wakings). But I know that I would rather go through this in life than never to experience this at all. So I am just trying to take this in one day at a time. Soon enough my maternity leave will be over and I will be back at work (kind of looking forward to working again and thinking of “adult” stuff again if you know what I mean). But for now, I need to live my time as a mom for my boys. And of course I totally appreciate the help that I have been receiving from my family (my mom has been so helpful with the little one this year and the hubby will try to take care of the kids on the weekends when he isn’t working) and our nanny.

Olympic Mosaic

I cannot believe that 2010 is almost over. This will totally be a memorable year on many levels.

  • The Vancouver Winter Olympics! Definitely a highlight for our city. It made our nation so proud to be Canadians. (I think many people had Olympic withdrawal after the Olympics ended!) Watching the gold medal men’s hockey game was the most exciting event ever.
  • We had another baby! Little j was born in May. Having to care for two children is definitely a different challenge than just caring for one. It has been amazing watching the little one hit his milestones as a baby. How quickly we forget once they happen. Now I know why some parents record everything that their children do. We cannot help but sometimes compare the little guy to our first born. But it is also amazing how unique and different each child can be even though they come from the same gene pool.
  • First time traveling with 2 kids. We went to Oahu, Honolulu for a good friend’s wedding. We love Hawaii but this was a very challenging trip for me. I had to pack for a 6 month old, a 3 year-old, and myself. We had so much stuff to bring. I have to admit that this wasn’t my most pleasant trip however I am thankful that I was able to witness the union of our good friends in such a beautiful venue. Hawaii will always have a special place in my heart. I am sure that we’ll be back again. My oldest son is already saying, “I want to go back to Hawaii again.”

Looking back on my list back in January 2010, I have to say that I want to do more of the same things that I listed back then for 2011. I think I can honestly say that I have indeed done more of all of the items that I have listed (yay for me!) but of course being the Type A personality that I am, what I have accomplished is just never enough.

Here is the list again (with an extra bonus for 2011):

  1. More photography. I need to take more pictures. I need to take more pictures of my children. I also want a new camera and a new lens. But that’s another post of its own…
  2. More crafting. I love to sew. Hope to have more time for this in the new year.
  3. More reading. I love to learn! I really should do more of this to keep my brain healthy.
  4. More blogging. I should post more often.
  5. More journaling. Writing down the events of your life is important for self-reflection.
  6. More exercise. This is a new item for 2011. It’s not like I don’t run around the house after my kids (well only one kids is mobile for now) but I definitely need to get off my butt more often and just get my heart pumping. I find regular cardio kind of boring these days. Maybe I need to sign up for something fun like hip-hop lessons or something. Hopefully I can find the time when the baby starts to sleep better.

little j

Well, wishing you all a very happy 2011! (I need to go sleep now…)

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Sewing!

My sewing projects

That’s right, this post is about sewing with an exclamation mark at the end! Why? Because sewing gets me pretty excited.

Now that I am on maternity leave and am off work, I find that sewing is now my creative outlet (for those of you that do not know me, I am a type A personality and need to constantly be “busy” or working on “projects” to be happy). I have actually been fortunate enough to have some time to sew a few items since the baby has been born. You would think that he must be sleeping through the night in order for me to have so much time to sew again, but the fact is that I would rather sacrifice my sleep time and sew a bit when I get the chance. Yup, that’s me. And in case you were wondering, the babe is not quite sleeping through the night yet. I know I mentioned that he was sleeping 6-8 hours at one point, well somehow in the last month he’s regressed quite a bit and has been waking up every 2-3 hours for a feeding. Growth spurt maybe? Anyhow, back to the topic of sewing…

So yes, SEWING has been keeping me sane in terms of mental challenge. And somehow the sound of the sewing machine is soothing to my soul. I wonder if the boys feels the same way about the sewing machine noise since I did sew a lot when I was pregnant with both babies. I also think I inherited the sewing bug from my mom (she also likes to sew and taught me how to use the sewing machine at a young age, oh and she also happens to be the one who bought me my current sewing machine — thanks mom!).

Here is a summary of some items I managed to sew in the past 5 months:

  • 2 bunting flags
  • 2 girly dresses (yah, I know I don’t even have daughters and I still make dresses)
  • a gathered skirt for a little girl
  • a canvas bag (gift for mom’s friend)
  • burping cloths
  • bibs for the baby (he drools a lot!)
  • 2 pair of lounging/sleeping pants for my oldest son
  • a pair of upcycled pants for the baby (fabric from an old pair of PJs)
  • 2 pair of pants for my son’s stuffed toys (2 monkeys)
  • a stroller pad
  • a small quilt (panel to be placed in the baby’s room)
  • finished off a couple of uncompleted kidlet bags
  • another small blanket for the baby (just completed this one on the weekend)

I also have a few projects that I started but that are incomplete:

  • a wool caplet (I have had this for months–before the baby arrived–and have been too lazy to complete this!)
  • a couple of trick or treating bags for my boys (I need to complete this soon before Halloween)
  • small handbag
  • notebook cover

Wow, now that I have actually managed to list all the items I have worked on I am impressed that I have done so much. I really am a crazy workaholic. Even when I am away from work!

As I mentioned, sewing does get me fairly excited and it is definitely one of those things that make me happy when I complete a sewing project. I also get pretty excited reading new sewing books. I will sometimes buy them online (Amazon or Chapters), but one of my favourite things to do now is to borrow them from the public library. What I do is I check the library for new sewing books and I will request the book to be picked up at my local branch by placing a hold request. And if I really like the book then I may even end up purchasing the book myself for my own collection. I have saved a lot of money by borrowing sewing books instead of purchasing them.

I have also been buying a lot of fabric. Speaking of fabric I just got a bunch of fabric in the mail today! What a happy day :) . (Yup, I am obsessed with purchasing fabric.) I got a lot of Heather Ross fabrics and also a few Christmas prints. I will definitely be sewing some items for Christmas this year.

New Fabric!

I think I am going to be sewing some more bibs for the baby tomorrow. He’s been drooling a lot lately (teething?). I hope my boys enjoy my sewing. My oldest son seems to appreciate the items that I sew for him. He likes the pants I sew for him :) . He will also often ask me to make pants for all his stuffed animals. Last time he asked me to make pants for his stuffed cat, but I am not sure I want to make that cat pants or not… otherwise my son will just ask for more pants for his other stuffed friends!

Anyhow, I really should be getting ready for bed soon. Thanks for reading! Please feel free to ask me any questions about my sewing by leaving a comment on this post. Goodnight!

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Baby Room Makeover

Baby Room

Well, I am finally writing a post about the baby room makeover. The room is more or less “complete”, however I still have a quilted wall panel that I am working on that I have not hung up yet. I guess I will “finish” it later.

I had a lot of fun planning and decorating the nursery for my second son. His room is smaller than my oldest son’s room and so I had to think a lot about how to arrange everything. The moment we found out that we were having a boy, I started thinking about the colour scheme already. Thanks to the hubby for painting the room!

I think I want to redecorate some more rooms in our house now. Perhaps I will redecorate my oldest son’s room (no paint though as it takes too much effort to repaint) if he allows me.

Here are the before and after pictures for comparison:

Before & After - 1

Before & After - 2

Before & After - 3

Before & After - 4

Before & After - 5

Anyhow, here is a quick recap of some of things we did for the room makeover:

  1. New paint in vibrant turquoise blue
  2. Made some curtains
  3. Made a lamp cover that matches the curtains
  4. Added the tree wall decal
  5. Moved the baby furniture in (from big J’s bedroom) – crib, change table, small night table, & chair
  6. Made a new cover for the rocking chair
  7. Mounted a wall shelf above the change table
  8. Made and hung a bunting flag
  9. Placed white bird silhouettes wall decor above doors
  10. Added a storage bin (thanks to my mom who bought the bin for us!)

I have also bought some new crib sheets which are not in the pictures yet. I suppose that once I finally put up that wall panel then I can take some updated pictures again.

If you would like to see more pictures, check out my Flickr set of the baby room makeover.

Thanks for reading! :)

P.S. Happy 4 months little j! (My little one turned 4 months today.)

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Beach Life and Baby Update

Low Tide @ Jericho Beach (stitched)

We Love the Beach

One of the best things about living in Vancouver is how we are so close to the water. And not only that, we also have the view of the beautiful mountains.

One of our favourite things to do as a family is go to the beach. We’ve been heading down to Jericho Beach (or I think it’s actually closer to Laguno Beach) numerous times this summer already. It’s a short drive for us, and my 3 year-old son can easily stay there for hours (good entertainment value). We especially enjoy going during low tide when we can walk far down along the shore.

My 2 month old baby is a bit too young to enjoy the beach so he mostly just sleeps in a baby carrier when we go. If he is anything like the rest of his family, he is also going to love the beach. Cannot wait until he can sit up and play with sand!

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I cannot believe that the month of July is almost over already! I thought I would post more often this month but I guess not. We’ll see how busy August will be…

Baby Update

My baby is almost 12 weeks old. Time flies. He’ll be turning 3 months soon. He’s also been sleeping a bit better lately. Not exactly sleeping through the night yet but if I’m lucky I will have nights where he will sleep 5 hours straight through. The worse nights were the ones where he woke up every 1-2 hours. That was so brutal.

My mom and nanny have also been helping a great deal during the day with the baby. This allows me to get a nap during the day time when the baby needed to be held for naps. He’s been transitioning to sleeping in his crib more often for naps and that also really helps (he has been sleeping in his crib at night for a while). Yay baby! Not sure if this is because it’s the second baby or if he’s just “easier” compared to my first born. I hope his naps will be more regular so that we can schedule some activities and outings in between naps.

I have always found the sleep training thing to be the hardest thing with babies. My oldest son was never really a good napper. Luckily, he eventually slept through the night (8+ hours) at around 8 months but from what I remember it was pretty tiring before that. It’s funny how easily we forget about the pains and woes of parenting as time passes. Perhaps that is why people have more than 1 kid, because they forget about how miserable it can be with those sleepless nights! Or some are lucky are and have babies that are easy to soothe and that sleep well from birth. Not my children! (I won’t even go into the details about how my oldest son has been waking up at night lately…)

It also helps that baby #2 seems to be mild tempered. Little j seems to be generally a happier baby than big J was when he was a baby. My second son is pretty cheery most of the time (he loves to smile at faces!) and can sit still in a car seat, stroller, or baby rocker for long periods of time whereas my first son was a very serious baby and hated sitting on his own and always wanted to be held (I used baby carriers a lot with my first son).

This being very likely my last child, I think that I have been trying to savour the moments of having a baby a bit more than the first time around. I just love those little fingers and toes, and especially all those cute little noises that my baby makes. Little j loves to coo and “talk” to people. It’s just the most adorable thing! Makes those sleepless nights not as miserable when you look at your baby and realize how helpless and sweet they are. How could I be mad at this little guy for keeping me up at night? Or maybe I am just getting softer now that I have been a mom for a while.

Anyhow, I leave you with a couple of pictures of the little guy. Isn’t he adorable? I know that as a mother you’ll always find your own children cute but you have to admit that he IS pretty darn cute! ;)

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P.S. The baby room is almost complete (have a few final touches that I have not been able to hang up yet) and hopefully I can post more pictures soon.
P.P.S. Been sewing again lately! Maybe I will write about some of the stuff I have been sewing in another post. Bye for now!

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Curiosity

Silly Boys

My 3 year-old son asked my husband a question the other day before bedtime. My husband usually tucks him in to bed and before he goes to sleep, they cuddle on the bed and chat for a bit.

My husband told me about this conversation that they had the other night:

J: Daddy, who bought J?
D: What do you mean who bought J?
J: Who bought me?
D: Oh, we didn’t buy J!
J: You didn’t?
D: No, we made J.
J: How?
D: Um.
J: How did you make J?
D: …

I cannot help but laugh at that. I wonder when is an appropriate age to tell children about the birds and the bees. The joys of parenting!

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End of June

Cannot believe that it is the last day of June! This month really went by fast.

We celebrated my baby’s one month birthday, my dog’s 7th birthday, my birthday, and father’s day. There was also my BIL’s birthday and a little girl’s 1st birthday party. June is a busy month!

The weather in Vancouver has been sort of crummy this year. Feels cold for summer. It is supposed to be sunny tomorrow for Canada day. Hope that’s true because we want to hit the beach. One of the nice things about living in this city is that there is always a beach closeby.

Anyhow, hope to update more in July!

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Patio Gardening

I have always wanted to plant my own fruits and vegetables but have never been really successful at gardening. This year I am going to try again.

What I would eventually like to have is a garden bed in our backyard but until we build one (or my husband builds it for me) then I will have to start with patio gardening.

We have 6 tomato plants, 2 zucchini plants, some chives, some Italian parsley, some oregano, some strawberries, and a raspberry bush. I hope we end up with some food to harvest this year. Last year I planted some tomatoes and some herbs and we didn’t get many tomatoes. I think I needed to fertilize more often.

Anybody have some good tips on patio gardening? How often should I be fertilizing and what should I be using? I bought these organic alfalfa pellets but I am not sure how much to use and how often. I wanted to choose a more natural and organic way to grow my food but I am not sure if this method will work.

Well anyhow, stay tuned for more of my gardening updates sometime this season…

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Sewing Books & Baby Room Upate

Here are a few sewing books with projects that I cannot wait to start trying once I have more free time again for some sewing.

Sewing Books

Clockwise from top left: Doll Coordinate Recipe Volume 8 from Dolly*Dolly; Softies Only a Mother Could Love (borrowed from library); Handmade Beginnings by Anna Maria Horner; Built by Wendy, Dresses by Wendy Mullin.

Baby #2 has been really good so far. He sleeps and eats well and is generally good tempered. I think he is going to be a more mellow baby than my first born (thank God!). I have actually enjoyed being a mother the second round better this time. I remember struggling a lot with my first son (he was a pretty fussy baby and was – and still is – what I would call a high maintenance child). I guess I can understand why some mothers enjoy being stay at home moms now.

Moving the crib

Anyhow, I hope to start some sewing projects again soon. Still need to complete decorating baby’s room. Just a few more final touches and I would call it complete. We just moved the crib today from my oldest son’s room to the baby room. I am so glad that my oldest son is so thrilled about his new bed and about sharing his things with his baby brother. He is taking upon the role of older brother really well. I have a feeling that he is going to be a really great caring older brother!

I feel very blessed for my family.

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Mother’s Day Recap

Mother’s Day this year was definitely more memorable than most other years. First of all, being a mom myself makes it more special as you get to be honoured by your husband and child. Secondly, being pregnant with another baby is a reminder of things to come again with a newborn baby coming soon.

My morning started off well with some extra sleep (the hubby and kidlet went to hang out at the coffee shop in the morning so I could sleep in). Was greeted by my son and my husband with my mother’s day gift of a digital photoframe (because I am a photo person). My husband and son put together this photo montage for Mother’s Day (see pic below). My son is such a goof! I think he gets that from his father.

We went to church, had a nice lunch (Japanese food), and then dinner at home (yummy steak) later. It was almost like our normal Sunday.

We were planning for our last evening at home before our scheduled C-section appointment on Monday morning with the baby. We decided to go with a C-section because my first son came out as an emergency C-section (due to fetal distress). And even though the stats for a successful vaginal birth were high we really didn’t want to take any risks at all for chances of an uterine rupture and possible fetal brain damage should it occur. So we felt that the safest choice for the baby was to choose another C-section.

Sunday night was supposed to be our last evening at home before the baby came and our last full night of sleep. Well turns out that it didn’t quite work out as planned.

While reading books and getting ready for bedtime with my toddler, my water broke! As I was telling this to my husband I couldn’t help but think how ironic this all was. My son was like, “Why did mommy pee in her pants?” Oh how blunt little boys are! I was laughing when I heard that and then of course he asks, “Why is mommy laughing?” You have to admit that it is pretty funny if you were in my situation.

So off to the hospital we went at around 9 o’clock in the evening. Turns out I was in very early labour. My contractions were very mild and it would probably take another 12-24 hours minimum before I could do any pushing if I wanted things to progress naturally. Since we were planning to come in anyway on Monday morning at 8:00 AM we decided to proceed with a C-section anyway. Otherwise we would probably have to wait around in the hospital for another day or more for real labour to kick in. So at 1:02 AM on Monday May 10, 2010 my second son was born. Born about 7 hours earlier than expected but he came out at a healthy boy at 7 lbs 8.9 oz.

That was my Mother’s day. My son wasn’t exactly born on Mother’s day but it was pretty close. Definitely a Mother’s Day to remember!

Hope you all had a good Mother’s day too.

P.S. Bottom photo was taken by my friend Joseph at ChicGeekPhoto.ca.

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Car Seat Cover Tutorial

Car Seat Cover Tutorial

I just added a tutorial on how to make a custom car seat cover in my Flickr set.

Click here to view the instructions.

Enjoy!

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